Hahaha. Small world. I know Kaly Kaul. I was in the same chambers as her for a few years before she became a judge.
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/obituaries/1492523/Patrick-Pakenham.html Another obituary in a similar vein.
I do like a good obituary. They have become slightly boring since the mad generation of explorers or forces personnel passed. I always smiled on reading the sentence "They never married "......
1. No. 2. I’m too much of a gentleman to comment, not least because I still appear in front of her occasionally.